Hi Pam, thanks for reading and your thoughtful comment/suggestions : -)

I agree — it’s best that we all make such decisions while we still are still able to do it ourselves, I will perhaps talk to my mum about it like you suggest. It seems unusual (and a little bit melancholy?) to talk about such things when you are reasonably fit and healthy, but as you say that is exactly the right time to make such important decisions.

All the best,

Antony